It is, sorry.
There's nothing wrong with two people having a few drinks and going to bed together. But it's at the very least creepy to plan to knock someone's inhibitions down that way, or to take advantage of them.
>> It's the original and most effective date rape drug, and no one even really objects to people using it for that purpose.
You've now gone beyond creepy.
--edit-- OK so I've read his other comments and it was clearly a comment on society and meant to be taken at anything but face value. I'll be the first to admit that in discussions like these I can easily suffer from a sense of humour failure, if not a complete lack of sarcasm detection.
If it was a comment on societal attitudes then cool, am on board.
He's saying that society doesn't view it as negatively as it should... You shouldn't need to lower someones inhibitions for them to sleep with you...
The very fact that you say "it's creepy to lower someones inhibitions that way" only serves to reinforce his point... It's not just "creepy" it's downright fucked up; and for a portion of society it is common-case usage.
Is there an objective test, that can be administered by a third party, to differentiate between these two cases? If not, then what?
Who cares? You know if you're being creepy or not.