Good point, but what ways are there to solve this problem and why solve it? Having 4 different tags for RoR show up under an item is probably not a good idea for a variety of reasons. One of the problems would that some items might be tagged with only 'RoR' and not 'Ruby on Rails' resulting in the user having to aggregate more tags to get a fulfilling search. However the point you make is valid, so it is a problem which should be looked into imo.
Maybe an implementation of an underlying thesaurus could solve this? It might however be hard to maintain it. Any other ideas for how to solve this problem?