Here's my story:
We saw two doctors in Texas, both were convinced that my wife had advanced bowel cancer. The second doctor confirming the diagnosis was the Worst Day in my life.
We had no idea the doctors had colluded behind our backs, negating the exercise of getting a 'second unbiased opinion'. We had gone to a separate chain of hospitals and got the first diagnosis regurgitated to us.
She went in for a laparoscopic bowel resection surgery and woke up with:
* A nasty scar from pelvis to belly button
* Temporary ileostomy bag (her worst nightmare, requiring another surgery to remove, more nasty scarring)
* Hysterectomy (Sterilized, no kids yet)
* News that the previous diagnosis of cancer was incorrect.
* New diagnosis: Endometriosis (Can be treated without surgery in most cases)
The doctor was practically in tears when he broke the news to me.
The doctor was paid $60,000. The anesthesiologist and hospital split the rest, and our insurance paid in excess of $150,000 for the first surgery that wasn't medically necessary. The ileostomy reversal was performed in another state and cost another $40,000. Insurance is still paying for emergency room visits a few times a year.
We eventually consulted with several lawyers, and none would take the case, even the scummiest bastard I've ever met who would probably take candy from a baby if given a chance to do so. They all came to the same conclusion:
"There is no question that you have been severely and permanently wronged. Due to complications, you will need regular emergency medical attention for the rest of your life. If we took this case to court, we would win it every time. Unfortunately, it is not worth it to us due to the $250,000 limit. There is zero chance they will settle, there is no incentive for them to do so. A trial will be long, drawn out, and eventually, you could owe us more than the jury awards."
Thanks, Republicans.