So really, this is not about the government. Rather it is about the inherently insecure design of today's email, IM, payment, and social networking systems. While the cryptography research community and the hacker community have proposed numerous solutions, few have worked to deploy such solutions. Worse, many hackers and computer scientists have actively worked against such deployment by building businesses that are monetized by violating user privacy.
Before talking about your anger, take a moment to think about what you were saying to people 5, 10, or 20 years ago when this topic came up (I am speaking to everyone now, not just jimparkins).
The cypherpunk "2.0" generation is here. The adversaries are definitely way more resourceful and ten steps ahead now. So there may be some value in looking back with regret. But it's never too late.
Upvote for hope.