So really, this isn't about pair programming, it's about the fact the the poster has social anxiety, and needs to address that. (And I need to stop posting on HN and write some tests).
So really, this isn't about pair programming, it's about the fact the the poster has social anxiety, and needs to address that. (And I need to stop posting on HN and write some tests).
If you've never gotten into the zone; if you've never spent an entire afternoon and missed meals and been utterly surprised at the clock when you come up for air; if you've never been productive at the level of a seriously skilled programmer, then I suppose you would dismiss this as a silly rant. But that says more about you than the OP.
I guess during the refactor stage you would have some sort of design discussion as well. And it might be useful for one person to be the DRY promoter while the other person promotes the YAGNI point of view, or else refactoring can get out of control.
(And did you think about testing your tests?)