The loss of meaningful distinction in gender identity is a major cultural problem for the West that threatens our very survival. The "humans are all exactly identical, no questions asked" thing is extremely problematic.
From the outside it looks like your comment could easily be translated as "women need to know their place", but with fancier words to make it look philosophical.
> "humans are all exactly identical, no questions asked"
No one asserts this, not even gender studies majors. What's problematic is asserting that gender differences should have any bearing on what a member of a particular gender is allowed to do.
Subscribing to stereotypes is what excludes a large number of extraordinarily talented women from either entering or finding work in the tech industry.
Being unable to sit still, wanting to run around - now treated as an illness Roughhousing - a normal male activity, is now a crime in schools.
Here is a good article making my point - http://ideas.time.com/2013/08/19/school-has-become-too-hosti...
http://www.amazon.com/The-WAR-AGAINST-BOYS-Misguided/dp/0684...