Can you provide a definition for this? I'm fucking sick of people going through this process:
1. Struggle to understand someone's problem.
2. Give up.
3. Blame the victim.
If you see a problem, fix it. But nothing in your comment was at all helpful for the same people you were criticizing. This may come as a shock to you, but people struggle from different problems than you do. Some of them may seem easier to you because you don't experience the same thing.