> In the following paragraph she dissects her reaction and tries to reason about it--seems to come to the conclusion that she was being emotional, which isn't an unreasonable response in that situation.

And follows up with:

> I’ve struggled with this for over a decade now, coming to terms with the humanity of those I believe oppress me.

And the title is: "Sexism and Tech and Love"

> Wow, you must be a riot to work with.

I'm not a diplomat, nor a politician, nor a kindergarden teacher, I'm a programmer, I don't get paid to talk nice to people, I get paid to get stuff done to best of my abilities, and forgive me if I dare use harsh words towards people who deserve it.