As someone who knows folks who got wrongly blacklisted.. Well, you pretty much never get back. No matter what you do.
You're lucky if you get a decent reply from customer support to begin with..
Your best bet is to change domains, fill in a redirect and try to build up backlinks again. It'll take a year or two and hopefully no competitor pops up in your space.
Or, you can try and get Andreesen-Horowitz interested in your business.