Yeah, I think maybe you're the one that is slightly deluded. OP offered a realistic view of what a coding job often implies, and why it might not be that glamorous to many women.
You pretend they're all going to own their own company and make a ton of money.
The irritating thing is that you can only rarely group men or women together as being one way or the other. Once you get past primary and secondary sexual characteristics, there are no blanket statements which apply. Pick pretty much any blanket statement you like, and if you actually look at the men and women around you, you'll find plenty of exceptions.
I actually think that the comment was a troll, but Poe's Law applies, and plenty of people will support his view.
I'm interested to know which blanket statements you're thinking about that have only rare exceptions.