How did we ever survive without them, before boost showed up? I seem to remember doing just fine. They are a symbol of the useless bloating of C++, a language trying to be all things to all people. A half-assed halfway house between managed and unmanaged. You're either a competent C++ coder, in which case you shouldn't need them, or you're new to the language, in which case they are obfuscating the details that you need to learn.

> transfer ownership

Then transfer ownership. The object that owns them encapsulates a container. When it is destroyed, it iterates the container and destroys the objects that it owns. So to transfer, take it out of that container and pass it to the new owner. It isn't rocket science.

>unknown lifetimes

Then you have a lazy, poor design. And that's the point really, managing your memory properly is an intellectual rigour - it forces you to improve your design, to be acutely aware of these issues. Not just spawn shared_ptrs and hope for the best. We have nice forgiving languages where you can be lazy. Coding in C# is like taking a holiday. C++ is meant to be hard.