The adoption of server-side JS implementations (node particularly) is already "real" I think - the growth in its popularity seems to be very quick compared to other platforms when you consider how short a time has passed since node was first made available.
I agree that one of the things constraining that growth is the ease with which a nightmare of callbacks gets created, which can be a problem for later maintenance/improvement, and some of the newer language features will help that - but I think many will avoid using those features until they are commonly available client side too (there are many out there still using relatively old browsers, and a lot of projects don't have the luxury of being able to ignore them).
I think a major thing that is making those consider node hold back a little is the very thing that has made it successful: the rapid growth and evolution which is still on-going. I suspect that there are many experimenting with it but waiting until things settles down (which the core no doubt will for a while soon) before committing to using it for major projects.