How the secret police tracked my childhood
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I was stopped randomly in car traffic because my car was "reported stolen" just to get every single piece of the car out trying to find "illegal" printed materials. One of these guys in our team also snitched for local police (so they recruited someone, i still don't know whom.) They tapped my cell phone and were able to meet us at place which was mentioned over one single cellphone talk...
My very small business suddenly became in focus of various state agencies, like IRS, fire department, etc. Each was able to find something to fine me for. I closed it.
It got to the point where my mom had "interview" with KGB where they openly told, that if she can't influence my behavior, probably I will never get my masters degree, my sister will never get into college, my mom will likely loose her job.
At some point I was "invited" to talk with local police chef about my "disturbances". At that time I already worked out a way to get out from Belarus for good and told about it to this police guy. He was very satisfied with this response from what I could see...
This was happening 6 years ago and from what I hear, still does. At least they did not prison and torture me, although it is probably more because I never cause too much trouble for them and was dismissed as not very important person to deal with.
Yeah, with some of these friends I keep in touch.
So it played out well for me and my family. But definitely not for the people of Belarus.
For instance if you ruffle the wrong feathers your business may get "surprise inspections" from every government agency known to man.
And guess what they will always find a reason to fine your.
And although I pay a lot for not leaving with all the waves of brain drain, it deserves all I pay to experience this, all three systems are so similar, the way they sell themselves is different.
At least they had the chance to survey those files and learn from them. Imagine us survey our files at NSA, GCHQ or any other services that gets its targets from linkedin. It will never happen.
-- John Kenneth Galbraith
Although when the father went back to Romania, no one tried to hold him in prison for 10 years and torture him, so perhaps something has changed - no?
Many of whom where not really integrated in the economic reality, and this time would fight a harsher world, at least in communism they had the support of those who hated communism. Many withered away in poverty, anonymity and alcohol. They tried to avert us that many of those holding power where from the same circles as the previous regime but to no avail.
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/06/08/world/europe/08iht-prisons...
I think you should have hope for your people and your countries - these ideas are contagious and we live in a world of instant communication and instant spread of ideas. Each generation hence will work towards improvement as long as they continue the fight against oppressive authoritarian socialist states re-emerging.
Your analysis is spot on though as a lot of our 'misery' is engrained in our culture and that simply takes more/longer to change than merely switching government.
It will take at least a generation to transition out of the current system. If people work hard at that goal. If they don't it will take even longer.
This is what eastern Europeans need to understand.
Still true. I responded to someone's 'How are you?' yesterday with an actual status report, and they were taken aback.
If you're not interested then stop pretending to care.
Plus getting people off balance is always fun.
Also fun by actually remembering the names of new people.
If I don't want to talk at all, I will use a simpler NULL+POLITE token ("Good morning.") without the implicit invitation to open a conversation.
It isn't that Americans don't expect a response. It's just that most Americans have different handshake formulas for starting a conversation. People who skip the initial negotiation might be perceived as chatty.
It bothers me.
Thankfully, my startup associate, that is french, when he asks that, I know he probably means it (I always reply to him truthfully, even if he dislikes the answer...)
Noone ever complained.
In fact I rarely use that, much less at the start of a conversation (I might use it as courteous reply if the other person ask first, and I ask that to actually close people, like my associate, my SO, my parents...)
If you respond with "fine, thanks" then that would not seem out of place either. You can mumble back pretty much anything and people will be happy with it. British english is very loosely defined like that.
* it should probably be spelled "Allright" but that looks totally wrong to me, it isn't pronounced as two words at all.
You may wish to consult this instructional video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qksndNDMDOw
Unless its a relative or friend and they are actually asking because of some event. Everyone else is just being polite and checking if it is an ok time to talk.
I understand your advice, intellectually, but when I am in the immediate circumstance, it can nonetheless be hard for me to go into and remain in "superficial" mode. It's not my natural form of communication; also, when it extends beyond just the greeting, it can become difficult and frustrating.
I find it not very efficient nor productive towards actually understanding the other person or situation and reaching a useful mutual understanding, whether just at a social level or in the course of some specific problem solving.
Again, this may not "make sense" to some reading my comment. But it is the way I and I think some others experience dealing with things such as "How are you?" and "(Very) Good/Great/Fine..." and "Well", of course... as evaluating to "Hey" or even [null expression].
The flipside is that the other party does genuinely communicate, we tend to be able to communicate a much greater understanding more quickly and with fewer errors and need for longer term follow-up and repetition. In my experience...
People can sometimes be frustrated with the amount I communicate. Until they realize later that I actually though of and told them exactly what they needed to know to deal with a situation, and they didn't have to come back and ask me anything further -- nor correct a mistake caused by a lack of understanding.
Over time, they tend to learn that if I am telling them something, it is probably for a good reason -- even if they don't see it, yet.
General greetings like that aren't meant to. Its just an ENQ and I'm giving an ACK. Either I have time to talk or I don't and my next actions tell the story. It might be one of those regional things, but its not something to dwell on too much when encountered since its just superficial politeness.
Evil regimes hate anonymous communication.
My father was sentenced to 11 years at the harshest prison of all, Aiud, for "fraudulent crossing of the border, punishable with art. 267 of the penal code".
Evil regimes love to make it a crime to try to leave the living hell they have created. And look how official-sounding the law is. People who uncritically accept the government's position will think, "Well, the man did something fraudulent, after all... surely he deserves some punishment."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stasi#Storming_the_Stasi_headqu...
A couple words missing:
... thereby threatening the national security agency.
Statistically every 10th person you met at that time was most likely as intelligence service informant.
I suppose a lot of the informants and plants were not paid, but forced to participate through threats, but it still seems like a staggering amount of organization at incredible cost.
Magical Combat should be differentiated from psychic attack,
with which a large proportion of 'fringe' occultists concern themselves
with, and is largely a product of self-delusion and varying degrees of
megalomania. True magical combat has its own rules and boundaries,
which are known to the skilled, while the trainee must quickly learn
them if trauma is to be avoided. Caught up in a situation which s/he
finds incomprehensible and alien, the trainee only knows confusion
and terror. Stripped of the smug self-assurance of "it can't happen to
me" s/he learns to perceive the environment with clarity, to give attention
to the rhythms and pulses of the world. Truly, Death is a great teacher.
If you can reach forwards and see the moment of your 'death', then that
moment will give you a glimpse of your potential.[0]
Look at this from a naturalistic framework. Jesus, for instance, may have simply been a very eccentric man who behaved linguistically and personally in ways that were revolutionary. He probably induced too many magic mushrooms, or some atypical neurological condition set him extremely intuitively in line with a mystical tradition — nevertheless, these are historical implementation details of this Universe. Not uniquely interesting either way you describe it.Now imagine that these features of a society become more widespread — where you have {J1, J2, J3, ...}, then imposters, {I1, I2, I3, ...}, and then of course randoms, {R1, R2, R3, ...}. This is an oversimplified model, but it captures the problem well enough.
Surveillance becomes a psychological management strategy that naturally emerges given the task of ruling out true adepts (altruistics) and delusionists (potentials who cannot manage their own psychic powers).
"Psychic powers" does not amount to some belief in the supernatural. If I mention the word "chair", this will not sit with you as mental residue (surely, contextual and relational analysis apply, but on the whole it will not) — but if you take recourse to JL Austin's "How to Do Things With Words" — you will certainly need to shake off words like "preapopstaticontinentalism". The first point is that a speaker has produced the word, then it comes that decision procedure of whether or not it has literal meaning. The brain has to do work — which is the basis of "psychic forces" (reducible to behaviors of neurological substrata).
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[0]: http://www.chaosmatrix.org/library/chaos/texts/apikindx.html
Also, I erect a Tower of Iron Will around the party. (rolls d20)
[1] http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/mar/31/capital...