In a truly powerful language you're not straining against your bonds to get profoundly cool things to work. Sure, sometimes that means code evolves into something even a mother couldn't love. But that fact in no way establishes a basis for arguing that somehow languages should be more restrictive to protect people from bad habits.
Bad coding is a universal solvent: you can't make your language into a bottle to hold it.
And I'm consistently surprised by how easy it is to root out my stupidities once I've recognized them, thanks to the repl, a functional style and a small code base. Lisp teaches you to face your fears.
I don't think you should write off lisp just because it's too flexible. If anything, that makes it much more interesting to learn - there are lots of ways to do things. Clojure currently says there should be one obvious way to do it; so maybe you should check that out.
Idiomatic Clojure wouldn't really embrace an object system anyways since it's meant to be pragmatically functional.
And this is a bad thing?
a lack of incentives about not using it capriciously
That's an argument against higher-level languages. If a language lets me do what I want, it lets me use it capriciously if I want. The only way to inhibit capriciousness is to inhibit power and flexibility.
I suspect this complaint about Lisp, which seems to get trotted out every time, is made by (and for) people who haven't worked much with Lisp. It's just too remote from reality, or at least the corner of reality that I've personally traversed.
I recognize that this stems directly from CL's greater power, and I don't want that power removed from a language; I just don't know how to get the power and develop a culture of good libraries and reuse.
The library complaint annoys me because it's become the thing that everyone repeats regardless of how applicable it is. The truth is that it depends on what kind of problem you're working on. Also, to the degree that it's easy to implement the portion of functionality that you need, the value of a library goes down; and no one seems to consider the cost of using a library, which can be nontrivial (e.g. learning curve, difficulty of modification).