Hollywood has been faking it all the way, from ridicules gun-shots scenes, bombs explosions, cars that keep driving after getting smashed and street-kids who can shot and kill in one hand.
It is simply that code, software and hacking is closer to us than the other examples, so we care about it that it will look real.
Also, how would you show an owned server? a prompt that reads:
# root
This means nothing to the masses.[1] - regarding bombing scenes, I think is one of those rare directors who don't fake it, rather make it looks as realistic as possible, see Hurt Locker and Zero Dark Thirty as examples.