You want to destroy someone's life forever. Everyone needs a chance to rehabilitate, whether or not they were guilty or successfully prosecuted or not.
Does it matter that this man wants to forget whatever shame this caused him?
I actually find it disgraceful that you have deliberately used his name in two of your comments. At the time of writing almost 10% of comments in this thread are from you.
What has happened to you to make you so broken and incapable of forgiveness?