Well, looks like this kills off my personal XMPP server - I don't think the software I'm using (djabberd) supports encryption for s2s connections and it's not really developed anymore. That's annoying.
https://github.com/fastmail/DJabberd/commit/144c4431f36e5ea3...
Its been running for a few hours now without any obvious problem. I might have made some stupid error that makes the crypto entirely useless but considering yesterday it was all in cleartext anyway I think I can live with it ;)
I don't know how easy it is to move data out of djabberd but I'm sure we can help you with that if you can provide schemas or example data. :)
[1] http://blog.fastmail.fm/2011/08/24/new-xmppjabber-server/