First, your post reads very rambly. That doesn't help much, though it probably actually does help a little, since the more what you're saying becomes clear, the more likely you are to get downvoted.
Which brings me to the second point. Your post is highly misogynistic - read up about it here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misogyny . At various points, you make the following arguments:
- Women simply aren't into tech
- You don't want women to be into tech
- Because it doesn't fit your stereotype of what women should be like
- Your view of what women should be like is they're there to help you with some aspects of your life, like having children, etc
- Successful women are doomed to not be successful by your stereotype of what women should do
- Successful women are scary
These are very distasteful, anti-women points that peg you clearly as either someone who believes this stuff because he's an asshole, or someone who believes this stuff because he hasn't spent 5 minutes researching the topic and is running on stereotypes. The latter's only advantage is that maybe there's hope for you to get better over time.
That's why you're being downvoted. You should really spend some time thinking about what kind of person the above beliefs make you, and start re-examining where they come from and how you can change them in yourself.