Sorry if I misunderstand your point, but are you saying that the US is a police state because they wouldn't allow you to drive drunk (endangering other people) or with a gun in your car? I think it is a good thing that it hasn't hurt your ability to get employment since these things are not related, but I still don't understand the police state connection.

What changes are you proposing? That everyone should be able to have a loaded gun with or without a permit or that everyone should be allowed to drive while under the influence?