You'd have the same problem if you were on the open web and the company sent a DMCA takedown request to your hosting company.
I agree that the approach is bonkers, but it's not an issue exclusive to "walled gardens".
I doubt you would use a DMCA takedown request for this. You'd just disable embedding of your videos in your youtube options. Youtube probably already knows when a video isn't requested from either youtube's website or the official youtube app.