It should be noted that none of these comparisons - Ruby\Node.js, nor Rails\Node.js, are really apples to apples.
Ruby/Node is a pretty fair comparison as far as evaluating "backend server tech". While yes, Ruby is a language and Node is a runtime (thus perhaps making JRuby/Node a more apt comparison), Node.js is far enough removed from client-side Javascript in terms of libraries, knowledge required, etc that I find it pretty easy to compare the two. With Ruby, you find a web framework, supplement with libraries, and code yourself up an app. With Node.js, you do the exact same thing. Good enough for me.