Next, do not fixate on languages and frameworks. Aspire to make this irrelevant to you. Great developers often can work with multiple languages and frameworks.
Be prepared and excited to learn every single day of your life as a programmer. The best programmers I know are always learning. This is an investment you will need to make regardless of work pressures and schedules. I've seen far too many developers have their skills atrophy because they've not invested in improving.
Use the Rubber Duck debugging model - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rubber_duck_debugging.
One simple way to do this is that whenever you get stuck, go to stackoverflow and start explaining the problem.
I have found my solution innumerable number of times by forcing myself to explain it to someone else with no context. It makes you confront your assumptions and understanding.