And here they are, not only looking the gift horse in the mouth, but questioning its pedigree, complaining that it's a clydesdale when they wanted an arabian, and complaining that their stable which is designed to accept new horses automatically, accepted a new horse automatically.
If you tick the box "automatically download new purchases" you've already "lost control of your phone" because you're accepting Apple's assistance in getting any new media that appears in your account onto your phone.
Do people complain like this about Kobo and Kindle readers automatically downloading new books?