The biggest thing inhibiting them before we worked together was growing up in a situation that seemed hopeless to the point where they couldn't see the path or the opportunity that was there for them.
The biggest thing inhibiting them before we worked together was growing up in a situation that seemed hopeless to the point where they couldn't see the path or the opportunity that was there for them.
That said, a friend of mine got a middle class job despite health issues, addiction, and with a somewhat shady past it's just much harder. However, he also had a fairly strong network to fall back on when things where tough which helps.
In both cases they perceived those, and other factors as making the possibility of success unlikely.
I managed to convince them otherwise, because in part, I have a similar background, and because they saw results.
That part of the problem is that people get conditioned to see their horizon as narrow.
It cost me nothing to help these people (Really, I did give them loans and stuff like that over time, but the real help was not money.)
Unfortunately, our society is focused on the welfare system, but the welfare system never illuminated the path for these people.
Of course, this is based on my experience so it's anecdote.