I can't seem to understand why people are making such a big issue out of this? Its just their name, not like end of the world!
As evidenced by your experience (and may others) this issue is not relegated to drag queens and any solutions should be available to anyone.
What do you have to hide?
It's my primary identity among my friends.
But, I don't want to change my legal name. It's easier to deal with my fellow americans having have a good, strong, and above all normal first name and a properly romanized last name with a european flavor. Being normal, white male with a normal, white male name is a Good Thing™ in most of America.
Also, my family would probably have their own objections.
So why bother with restrictive naming policies?