You also seem to skip over the part of my comment where I largely agree with you. (Though I didn't spell it out explicitly, I assumed it was clear what I mean. Apologies.)
What I was trying to do is draw the distinction between being trans and being a drag performer.
The issue I see is whether an individual can have personas. Should PartyBro045 be forced to present as BusinessDude75 online? (There are valid reasons as well as potential consequences to do this - though they likely don't reach the same level of concern.)
Does that issue get the same attention? No. Understood.
Whatever policy is put in place, it needs to be applied consistently both between and across gender lines.