Your response is like saying when Facebook was privacy zuckering (http://darkpatterns.org/library/privacy_zuckering/), the user clicks right through the settings that should have sounded an alarm.
What can Apple do? They could make a better browser (I like how Chrome and Firefox do things - you have to go out of your way to reach a page with bad SSL -- compare Safari's rather passive and enabling error message: http://blog.serverdensity.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/ssl... vs. chrome's: http://i.imgur.com/ttmmDJ8.png -- you have to REALLY see and think how to access the site despite the warning, it's that good). They could be more vigilant in alerting users of where and how this can happen.
If we were talking about any other young startup, your apology might fly -- not so with Apple, they're sitting on billions, they have the resources to think of a solution and implement it.