A racist man says: "I'm not racist; I have black friends."
Do you see what's wrong with that statement?
White people determining what constitutes white privilege leads to white people conveniently missing their own blind spots.
Similarly: How come we see requests for devs to go out and ask females what their experiences and comfort are on online, but we don't the same for blacks and Muslims* ?
Originally, third wave feminism addressed this, pointing out addressing only female inequalities was unfair, but they've been getingt shouted down over the last decade.
Black people are receiving tons of death threats, at least one of them followed up by an actual death [3]:
[1] http://www.theglobaldispatch.com/dr-phillip-goudeaux-sacrame...
[2] http://www.americanthinker.com/2008/02/black_hillary_support...
[3] http://withintheblackcommunity.blogspot.com/2013/01/blax-new...
[4] http://aapov.blogspot.com/2010/07/freepointes-african-americ...
"I'm not racist; I have black friends."
So you assume I'm white and doing this? That's an incredible assumption when you don't know anything about me personally.
Let me spell it out for you - Just because some women happen to identify with the GooberGater movement doesn't mean that GooberGate is not, at the very LEAST, misogynistic in tone. If you can't understand that then there's nothing that anyone here can do for you.
Go back to /r/KotakuInAction. And tell the moderators there that they may want to drop their association with /r/dickgirls and /r/breakfemanazis