Eventually the only thing left that we had not swapped out was a BNC 'T' connector at the back of the MAU of chopper itself, the one that was used to put it on the coax bus.
My buddy Jasper and I both looked at each other at the same moment around 4 am or so, bleary from sleep 'that can't possibly be it', let's swap it out. And sure enough that was it.
Apparently that particular 'T' connector had electrical capabilities unlike any other 'T' connector produced before or after. It managed to filter out 'ping' reply packets from the IP address of the server reported as down...