Is this experience even close?
I might point out that I also felt discriminated against when trying to get scholarships, since such a huge percent of the help goes to non-whites or those in lower income classes. As a middle class white boy wanting to go into Computer Science I got almost nothing. In theory this counter-discrimination is supposed to make up for the racial discrimination to try to level out the economic privileges. I'd really like to get rid of both.
I note that since I wish discrimination did not exist I tend to pretend that it does not. Perhaps this is part of the problem. But I have never called anyone a racial slur and I try to counter any racial biases I find in my own thinking. So I don't feel like I'm part of the problem.