Social rules change as the means of communication change. Attempting to preserve social rules at one period of time, whether it's 1890 or 1990 is foolhardy.
Social rules change as the means of communication change. Attempting to preserve social rules at one period of time, whether it's 1890 or 1990 is foolhardy.
I find it equally irritating if people are messing with their phones in a movie theater. It's not that I want to limit their use of the internet, as that I don't want to be distracted by flashing objects in my peripheral vision when I'm trying to focus on a screen. If you want to text at the same time you're watching the movie then go sit in the back row where it won't impose upon other people.
Civility is not a matter of one technology being better than another, but of not being an ass towards the people in your immediate vicinity.
I don't see how it does that at all. If the students were being loud or otherwise actively disruptive, I'd get your point. But if my neighbor has her nose buried in her cellphone, I fail to see how that impedes my ability to engage with the professor by taking notes, asking questions, etc.
But I'll Assume that it's still only a minor effect.
The part which would bug me is someone using a laptop or device to visibly do something else in class- because it's just far more visible and distracting.
Most college students only care about getting the piece of paper that says "college degree".
Any effort above and beyond the minimum required is considered to be wasted effort.
From the student/neighbor perspective I personally do find it distracting to have people around me doing irrelevant stuff in a context like that, but I have a pretty bad ADD so I know that's not typical of others' experience.
Also "sneering condescension" for enforcing rules in his classroom?
The professor has a responsibility to teach his students. Not just an ethical one, but a financial one too. If he can't teach effectively with people texting/emailing then he has a responsibility to restrict those activities such that all his students are getting what they paid for.
I might suggest that a student failing to heed his classroom rules might constitute a breach of civility. He could easily have made getting caught equate to failing the class (this is a class on civility after all!) but he didn't, which indicates to me that he has some understanding of what civility is. He merely asked her to leave.
The right place to start is with equanimity and respect for society. Equanimity because interacting with people in real life is sometimes rather painful, and you can't take things back. Respect for society is similar to respect for the parents: this crazy, evil, dysfunctional society sort-of raised you (and your parents). Society is responsible for providing you with literally everything you know - even the basis for the views you have that loath society. This requires a kind of humility that is very difficult to impart. Usually it comes (if it comes) after a person has been self-sufficient and recognizes the very real trade-offs they might have to make in order to achieve even a fraction of their goals (which is precisely what happened to their parents, most likely).
Of course, all of this is far too much to ask of a single class. He sort of jumped at the students from one, relatively random direction (there are lots of other problems that weakness and disrespect engender, like lack of self-control, depression, etc) and certainly there are not shortage of well-meaning people honing in on some narrow error mode that is really a symptom of something much deeper that takes years of effort to overcome. In any event, a teacher who grows so easily angry when his students demonstrate ignorance of the very thing he's trying to teach might consider the real possibility that he's not fit to be teaching.