I don't know how it works in Germany precisely, but in Poland there's a system where big energy users can publish "demand reduction offers" and network operator buys these offers as needed to balance the network.
The basic rule is - those, who unbalances the network pays those that balances it back for the troubles, so there's huge incentive to predict your power requirements and transfer requirements precisely. I guess Germany with their solar cells and wind turbines have a lot of problems with that.
There are a few whole markets set up with energy, transfer capacities, reduction (or increases) offers by both plants and users, and it works quite nicely.
I worked on a system for bulk energy trading and it was very intersting to see how it works behind the scenes.
BTW demand reduction is actually BETTER than storing and returning energy. Demand reduction of 100 MW frees more than 100 MW (heating loses), and lets other people use the wires in that time.