Rooftop solar would have a very hard time supplying the same current feed your power company has. A few back-to-nature Californians may be satisfied with the battery-solar combo straw man in this article; most of us want our TV and microwave too.
Around $20 of that is fixed fees, to pay for the basic infrastructure, billing, meter reading etc...
That is still a higher rate of return than you would normally get, which makes it a better investment.
The most powerful model s on the road right now has a ~310kW motor in it. That is an order of magnitude above what most house circuit breakers are rated for (200A-300A, 24kW to 36kW). There are even small RC batteries out there that can push 150A+ for a few seconds on their own.