The atmosphere on debian-users is… not very helpful.
Q. I can't stop fsck.
Brian: You can add a parameter to kernel startup.
Q. This does not help because I want to stop one that has started. I should raise a bug.
Brian: Don't do that there is already a bug report at number ....I really hope Brian is not like that in real life interactions.
Is this polite or helpful in solving the issue? It's being preachy about the idea that nobody ever makes wrong choices, ever, and should definitely never be given the opportunity to fix their mistakes.
His attitude wasn't "don't do that there is already a bug report". It was "well you made bad decisions by (a) wanting to stop fsck in the first place and (b) not being prepared for it happening i.e. by setting up two GRUB options".
I agree completely with what you're apparently trying to say in a general sense, but with respect to precisely how you phrased it, it could use a little work.