14 hours a day, and your problem is ambiguous documentation and temperamental behavior? I don't mean to detract from your primary points, but 14 hours a day is quite a chunk of time. I hope its not your norm, because that just sucks.
10-14 hours a day is the norm and I still get in the gym, dinner with the wife, vigorous sex, a few games of vain glory and other facets of "normal life".
I also take weeks off at a time because I mostly work for myself. In fact, I've been traveling for the last 4 years (I moved to Vietnam from NYC about a year ago).
So, it might suck for you, but I would hardly say my life sucks because I work so much. Mostly because it isn't really work to me, but mostly because at 41 I know what balance works for me.
But thanks for the concern.
You get done, smack your own butt playfully, and walk out with your plates saying, "I have to get some other normal shit done. Love you!... and you too wife!"
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you or your lifestyle... but when you awkwardly present the style of your sex life as part and parcel to normal living, it underlines that you are a bit detached from social norms, thus normal life.
BBC interviews people on the street... BBC: So how are you getting on with life these days? Person: Ahhh... well, it's mostly normal day to day stuff. Kids, pub, job, vigorous sex, groceries, some football or cricket when I can. Just normal all around.
OT but why did you move and how is Vietnam? Are you from Vietnam?
Just wondering how it is to live there.