"Who cares if Erlang starts slowly? It was designed to start once and never stop."
yarivsblog.com
yarivsblog.com
Now that's opinionated software.
I actually like Erlang, and have used it professionally, but have a feeling that it's just not going to be a language that's used too much outside of its sweet spot.
To be fair, slowness of startup time would be a criticism of the stock Erlang runtime, rather than of the language itself. As projects like Squeak, Rubinius, and the official Java VM have shown, this sort of speed issue can improve independently of the language semantics.
The runtime has a lot of really good features, too - it's solid, pretty fast, and is very well tested.