> but asynchronous programming is targeting only a single (server) application
As systems get more complex, this is not true anymore, because thinking otherwise would put the composability of the software at risk. Large software is typically built from many heterogeneous components.
> I also would add, that asynchronous implemented server applications are doing oftentimes better than systems that primarily rely on threading.
In the case of purely I/O bound applications, you may be right. Otherwise, it is a matter of finding the "sweet spot": just like bubble-sort is faster for certain applications than quicksort, does not mean it is the sort-routine we should be putting at the center of our frameworks, and build our software around.
Also note that asynchronously servicing N users, where each of the N services has a certain probability p>0 to "lock" the system for longer than expected, will increasingly become an unresponsive experience for increasing N.