Well, SSD's aren't nearly as fast as RAM, even today.
I think we are in agreement about the working data vs all data. I am saying that in most applications your working dataset is much smaller than your total data set. So why pay for hardware capable of holding your entire dataset in RAM when you don't need it?
I am surprised you are able to do this with Mongo. Last I checked, it simply did not handle this case, and started failing miserably if it was not able to fit all data into RAM.
Re: durability: I am not talking about the server going down, coming back up. I am talking about whether there is an fsync() when writing data. Set up a test case where you are writing data very rapidly to MongoDB, then pull the plug on the box it's running on. It'll come back up, but the data it told you it just wrote won't be there because it didn't checkpoint. Did you check that all your writes succeeded when you had node failures in your cluster? Most applications don't have the machinery to do this because generally the state necessary to check this is stored in the database, yet it's the database you are testing. The only way to test this is to also write logs (also atomically), and then verify DB data against logs. Or, just use a database that guarantees durability.
Re: consistency: MongoDB doesn't support transactions [1]. That's enough to exclude it from a large number of applications. Anything to do with money, for example, is out since you really don't want double spending to be a thing.
[1] http://docs.mongodb.org/manual/core/write-operations-atomici...