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Comment by mc32 | Hacker News Reader

I'm all for freedom to choose names, however, some if these examples are more the child as unwitting weapon for the parents seeking redress for some perceived wrong. Let the parents take these names first, give them a year to live with it, using it daily, and if they survive, ok, grant them okay to change their child's name. Having children fight parents' naming battles seems selfish.

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There's nothing magical about a name.

Hell, it's not even a unique identifier.

When I'm on the net, I decide to use another name than the one my parents gave me.

I can change my Internet name at will, with the only downside of not being easily identified by those who already know me.

The same should be true in 'real life'. Let the parents give the name they want, but let the child change it at will.

A few family friends have decided to give their children first names that are not be on the popular side of the spectrum, but have also chosen a more standard middle name that might be more favorable to the child once older.

I appreciate this approach because it does give a bit more of an option to the child. I haven't asked, but I expect the parents would be okay with the child changing their name totally as well.

It's quite prevalent in Chinese society for children to change their given names pretty much at will. You do have register the change at the "family" office, but that's it.

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