Ask HN: How to value domain for private purchase?
Buying the long-inactive {my_professional_name}.com from small fish private party who has been holding on to it for 9 years.
UNLESS they are getting click-through advertising revenue on it, or funneling traffic to another domain of theirs which advertises, or has direct sales on it; then you need to factor that in.
But it's best to be a human being and level with them. Remember, they're people. Really opportunistic people. And, if you can, just give up and get another TLD of the same basic name.
Will continue negotiation convo tonight along the line of human-ness. Beep boop beep.