Ask HN: How do you become a multibillionaire without being a jerk?
I want to earn a few billion dollars in technology. I don't want to be a jerk. I'm having problems finding good role models.
However, what about $100 millionaires? If so Steve Woz would be my suggestion. I can't think of when he ever really was a jerk. Maybe when he would block the signal of TVs in the college lounge, but that was more of a harmless prank. Even when folks copied the Apple II down to the board layout, he was fairly nice about it.
And there's no reason for them to be nice to be effective - or even liked. Try talking about Jobs being less than a saint on HN and you'll get a lot of "But... iPhone!" as if creating fantastic products excuses moral failings.