I don't know, while I never used opiates or any other "hard" drugs (except nicotine and alcohol), I had/have gambling addiction, lost a fortune of money (myself and parents), now have huge debts, caused a huge emotional pain to my parents, now have to live very frugal, because have to cover my debts, etc, etc.
So I think I imagine that full blown heroin addiction does to you, but the way you describe it sound like some virus, which affects your brain and make your a zombie (like some wasps do this to cockroaches). But in reality in just simple chemical with well understood action mechanism. Of course if you high all day, there is no motivation to do anything, but I think, we as humans beings, have to take responsibility for this and not blame some chemical.
When I said "gentle" and "harmless" I meant their psychical properties to human body. A roulette or deck of cards is also harmless to body, but they can ruin lives too.
But the main tragedy is when people lose health, money, commit crimes, prostitute themselves, etc. An as heroin is relative safe and harmless to body, legal heroin supplies to addicts would solve so much problems.