Not to mention the vast ecosystem of some really great nginx plugins. The one thing I have found desperately wanting in both nginx and haproxy is the support for real-time stats and filtering found in Varnish (supports HTTP only). I am absolutely hooked!
// Query Times
varnishncsa -F '%t %{VCL_Log:Backend}x %Dμs %bB %s %{Varnish:hitmiss}x "%r"'
// Slow Queries
varnishncsa -F '%t %{VCL_Log:Backend}x %Dμs %bB %s %{Varnish:hitmiss}x "%r"' -m "VCL_Log:SlowQuery"
// Top URLs
varnishtop -i RxURL
// Top Referer, User-Agent, etc.
varnishtop -i RxHeader -I Referer
varnishtop -i RxHeader -I User-Agent
// Cache Misses
varnishtop -i TxURL
// awesome dashboard
varnishstat