Forget rails. Move to Django ;)
Basically Django is usually fronted with mod_wsgi and you use celery for backend tasks. The multiple requests part are dealt with because the web server pre-forks, and it's just fine with it.
I think Django's problem is it moves very slowly, and mostly just that. The ORM isn't awesome, but it's workable. You can also choose to not use parts of it, like templates, and that's common in single-page apps.