I agree that a shared vocabulary is important, but standardizing in a way that makes the mathematical writings on the topic more accessible seems a big win. Moreover, "functor" is a bit more precise than "mappable" - a functor is a mapping that preserves structure. In what sense? The math can guide you. In this case, it means the functor laws.
That's not to say that coming up with other associations to help ease understanding is a problem - I have no problem with saying, "for now, think of Functor as 'mappable'". The equivalent for Monad would probably be "flatMappable", and Monoid would be "appendable".