It's because individual tools usually don't want to be tied to assumptions made by one particular distro. I actively avoid using distro packages for 3rd party development libraries and such, especially when a good tool for accessing upstream sources (eg pip) is available.

I use packages for certain tools and platforms, and libraries if I feel the library is really something I want to be a standard part of the system environment. For example, I am more likely to use the distro package of a python library (if available) if I'm planning to use the library for a system administration task than if I am planning to use it for application development. I'm also likely to use distro packages for things like apache, nginx, postfix, unless I have some case-specific reason not to.