In my last project I did some IP integration work and the lack of decent development tools led to significant chores. I did make use of Emacs verilog-mode like GP mentioned and even wrote some small macros in elisp but overall experience is far from satisfactory. Not to even mention the usability of propriety EDA tools and flows. The software world just looks like heaven with so many awesome development tools available (VS, PyCharm, intelliJ, to name a few I've used). And I can tell the difference because I once managed to convert a C# GUI software into a console application mainly with the help of an IDE (Visual Studio), without first learning C#.
Sadly, I think ASIC (or maybe broader, hardware) industry has a pretty poor ecosystem in general. I'm not aware of good hardware focused community comparable to HN, no high quality active Q&A on sites like stackoverflow; even the HDL languages look inelegant and not well thought out. And you have a point, I'm not even sure how many of my colleagues realize that. I want to make some difference. But I'm not sure where to start...