Dutch person here. The only friends I have that work full-time have partners that are at home for the kids. I don't know any couple that both work full-time. Couples that both have a career they want to keep go for 32 hours each and the kids go to daycare for 3 days. I hardly know anyone working full-time among friends my age (lower 30's), even without kids, they just like 3 day weekends.

When I applied at ASML they asked me: What if it looks like you will not be able to finish your work within the assigned time, what do you do?

I said: I would just work some more, if it doesn't happen very often, not a problem.

WRONG. Go to your project leader tell him: "I have time for either this or this, where should I put priority." We do not want overworked people.

ASML gave employees about 2 months salary as a bonus some time back, this is on top of a customary 13th month in December.