I'm not talking about civil disobedience, but simply living your life without dwelling on someone else's proscriptions for it.

> like the rest of us

False appeal to a nonexistent herd. People living your viewpoint are actually in the minority. Many people do drugs, and most people speed.

As I said, I too would like actions to better line up with laws. But in our society of victimless "crimes", the answer isn't to insist that people need to follow the abstract model harder, but to fix the model to line up with reasonable people's behavior. And this is not the moral responsibility of people who simply wish to live their life, but of those who are creating this system of rules and calling it justice. To think otherwise is to believe that individuals should be servants of their government.