They should give it to them in monthly chunks rather than a yearly lumpsome. When you're poor it's easy to be financially irresponsible.
[1] http://www.givewell.org/international/top-charities/give-dir...
[2] http://www.givewell.org/international/top-charities/give-dir...
This seems to be just one of those misconceptions like drug abuse, which AFAIR studies actually found more common in well-off people than in poor ones.
These people sometimes make bad decisions, but by and large they're more responsible than most people I know.